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CHAP. XVI.
Hagar is the person mostly concerned in the
story of this chapter, an obscure Egyptian woman, whose name and story we
never should have heard of if
Providence
had not
brought her into the family of Abram. Probably she was one of those
maid-servants whom the king of
Egypt
, among
other gifts, bestowed upon Abram, ch. xiv. 16. Concerning her, we have
four things in this chapter:-- I. Her marriage to Abram her master, ver. 1-3.
II. Her misbehaviour towards Sarai her mistress, ver. 4-6. III. Her discourse
with an angel that met her in her flight, ver. 7-14. IV. Her delivery of a
son, ver. 15, 16.
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Abram,
Sarai, and Hagar.
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1 Now Sarai Abram's wife bare him no
children: and she had a handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name was
Hagar. 2 And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD
hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be
that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.
3 And Sarai Abram's wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had
dwelt ten years in the
land
of
Canaan
, and
gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife.
We have
here the marriage of Abram to Hagar, who was his secondary wife. Herein,
though some excuse may be made for him, he cannot be justified, for from
the beginning it was not so; and, when it was so, it seems to have
proceeded from an irregular desire to build up families for the speedier
peopling of the world and the church. Certainly it must not be so now. Christ
has reduced this matter to the first institution, and makes the marriage union
to be between one man and one woman only. Now,
I. The maker of
this match (would one think it?) was Sarai herself: she said to Abram, I
pray thee, go in unto my maid, v. 2. Note, 1. It is the policy of
Satan to tempt us by our nearest and dearest relations, or those friends that
we have an opinion of and an affection for. The temptation is most dangerous
when it is sent by a hand that is least suspected: it is our wisdom therefore
to consider, not so much who speaks as what is spoken. 2. God's commands
consult our comfort and honour much better than our own contrivances do. It
would have been much more for Sarai's interest if Abram had kept to the rule
of God's law instead of being guided by her foolish projects; but we often do
ill for ourselves.
II. The
inducement to it was Sarai's barrenness.
1. Sarai bare
Abram no children. She was very fair (ch. xii. 14), was a very
agreeable, dutiful wife, and a sharer with him in his large possessions; and
yet written childless. Note, (1.) God dispenses his gifts variously, loading
us with benefits, but not overloading us: some cross or other is appointed to
be an alloy to great enjoyments. (2.) The mercy of children is often given to
the poor and denied to the rich, given to the wicked and denied to good
people, though the rich have most to leave them and good people would take
most care of their education. God does herein as it has pleased him.
2. She owned
God's providence in this affliction: The Lord hath restrained me from
bearing. Note, (1.) As, where children are, it is God that gives them (ch.
xxxiii. 5), so where they are wanted it is he that withholds them, ch.
xxx. 2. This evil is of the Lord. (2.) It becomes us to acknowledge this, that
we may bear it, and improve it, as an affliction of his ordering for wise and
holy ends.
3. She used this
as an argument with Abram to marry his maid; and he was prevailed upon by this
argument to do it. Note, (1.) When our hearts are too much set upon any
creature-comfort, we are easily put upon the use of indirect methods for the
obtaining of it. Inordinate desires commonly produce irregular endeavours. If
our wishes be not kept in a submission to God's providence, our pursuits will
scarcely be kept under the restraints of his precepts. (2.) It is for want of
a firm dependence upon God's promise, and a patient waiting for God's time,
that we go out of the way of our duty to catch at expected mercy. He that
believes does not make haste.
4. Abram's
compliance with Sarai's proposal, we have reason to think, was from an earnest
desire of the promised seed, on whom the covenant should be entailed. God had
told him that his heir should be a son of his body, but had not yet told him
that it should be a son by Sarai; therefore he thought, "Why not by
Hagar, since Sarai herself proposed it?" Note, (1.) Foul temptations may
have very fair pretences, and be coloured with that which is very plausible.
(2.) Fleshly wisdom, as it anticipates God's time of mercy, so it puts us out
of God's way. (3.) This would be happily prevented if we would ask counsel of
God by the word and by prayer, before we attempt that which is important and
suspicious. Herein Abram was wanting; he married without God's consent. This
persuasion came not of him that called him.
4 And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw
that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes. 5
And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong be upon thee: I have given my maid
into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her
eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee. 6 But Abram said unto
Sarai, Behold, thy maid is in thy hand; do to her as it pleaseth thee.
And when Sarai dealt hardly with her, she fled from her face.
We have here the
immediate bad consequences of Abram's unhappy marriage to Hagar. A great deal
of mischief it made quickly. When we do not well both sin and trouble lie at
the door; and we may thank ourselves for the guilt and grief that follow us
when we go out of the way of our duty. See it in this story.
I. Sarai is
despised, and thereby provoked and put into a passion, v. 4. Hagar no
sooner perceives herself with child by her master than she looks scornfully
upon her mistress, upbraids her perhaps with her barrenness, insults over her,
to make her to fret (as 1 Sam. i. 6), and boasts of the prospect she had of
bringing an heir to Abram, to that good land, and to the promise. Now she
thinks herself a better woman than Sarai, more favoured by Heaven, and likely
to be better beloved by Abram; and therefore she will not submit as she has
done. Note, 1. Mean and servile spirits, when favoured and advanced either by
God or man, are apt to grow haughty and insolent, and to forget their place
and origin. See Prov. xxix. 21; xxx. 21-23. It is a hard thing to bear honour
aright. 2. We justly suffer by those whom we have sinfully indulged, and it is
a righteous thing with God to make those instruments of
our trouble whom we have made instruments of our sin, and to ensnare us in our
own evil counsels: this stone will return upon him that rolleth it.
II. Abram is
clamoured upon, and cannot be easy while Sarai is out of humour; she upbraids
him vehemently, and very unjustly charges him with the injury (v. 5): My
wrong be upon thee, with a most unreasonable jealousy suspecting that he
countenanced Hagar's insolence; and, as one not willing to hear what Abram had
to say for the rectifying of the mistake and the clearing of himself, she
rashly appeals to God in the case: The Lord judge between me and thee;
as if Abram had refused to right her. Thus does Sarai, in her passion, speak as
one of the foolish women speaketh. Note, 1. It is an absurdity which
passionate people are often guilty of to quarrel with others for that of which
they themselves must bear the blame. Sarai could not but own that she had
given her maid to Abram, and yet she cries out, My wrong be upon thee,
when she should have said, What a fool was I to do so! That is never
said wisely which pride and anger have the inditing of; when passion is upon
the throne, reason is out of doors, and is neither heard nor spoken. 2. Those
are not always in the right who are most loud and forward in appealing to God.
Rash and bold imprecations are commonly evidences of guilt and a bad cause.
III. Hagar is
afflicted, and driven from the house, v. 6. Observe, 1. Abram's
meekness resigns the matter of the maid-servant to Sarai, whose proper
province it was to rule that part of the family: Thy maid is in thy hand.
Though she was his wife, he would not countenance nor protect her in any thing
that was disrespectful to Sarai, for whom he still retained the same affection
that ever he had. Note, Those who would keep up peace and love must return
soft answers to hard accusations. Husbands and wives particularly should
agree, and endeavour not to be both angry together. Yielding pacifies great
offenses. See Prov. xv. 1. 2. Sarai's passion will be revenged upon Hagar:
She dealt hardly with her, not only confining her to her usual place
and work as a servant, but probably making her to serve with rigour. Note, God
takes notice of, and is displeased with, the hardships which harsh masters
unreasonably put upon their servants. They ought to forbear threatening, with
Job's thought, Did not he that made me make him? Job xxxi. 15. 3.
Hagar's pride cannot bear it, her high spirit having become impatient of
rebuke: She fled from her face. She not only avoided her wrath for the
present, as David did Saul's, but she totally deserted her service, and ran
away from the house, forgetting, (1.) What wrong she hereby did to her
mistress, whose servant she was, and to her master, whose wife she was. Note,
Pride will hardly be restrained by any bonds of duty, no, not by many.
(2.) That she herself had first given the provocation, by despising her
mistress. Note, Those that suffer for their faults ought to bear their
sufferings patiently, 1 Pet. ii. 20.
7 And the angel of the LORD found her by a fountain of water
in the wilderness, by the fountain in the way to Shur. 8 And he
said, Hagar, Sarai's maid, whence camest thou? and whither wilt thou go? And
she said, I flee from the face of my mistress Sarai. 9 And the
angel of the LORD said unto her, Return to thy mistress, and submit thyself
under her hands.
Here is the first
mention we have in scripture of an angel's appearance. Hagar was a type of the
law, which was given by the disposition of angels; but the world to come is
not put in subjection to them, Heb. ii. 5. Observe,
I. How the angel
arrested her in her flight, v. 7. It should seem, she was making
towards her own country; for she was in the way to Shur, which lay towards
Egypt. It were well if our afflictions would make us think of our home, the
better country. But Hagar was now out of her place, and out of the way of her
duty, and going further astray, when the angel found her. Note, 1. It is a
great mercy to be stopped in a sinful way either by conscience or by
Providence. 2. God suffers those that are out of the way to wander awhile,
that when they see their folly, and what a loss they have brought themselves
to, they may be the better disposed to return. Hagar was not stopped till she
was in the wilderness, and had set down, weary enough, and glad of clear water
to refresh herself with. God brings us into a wilderness, and there meets us,
Hos. ii. 14.
II. How he
examined her, v. 8. Observe,
1. He called her Hagar,
Sarai's maid, (1.) As a check to her pride. Though she was Abram's wife,
and, as such, was obliged to return, yet he calls her Sarai's maid, to
humble her. Note, Though civility teaches us to call others by their highest
titles, yet humility and wisdom teach us to call ourselves by the lowest. (2.)
As a rebuke to her flight. Sarai's maid ought to be in Sarai's tent, and not
wandering in the wilderness and sauntering by a fountain of water. Note, It is
good for us often to call to mind what our place and relation are. See Eccl.
x. 4.
2. The questions
the angel put to her were proper and very pertinent. (1.) "Whence
comest thou? Consider that thou art running away both from the duty thou
wast bound to and the privileges thou wast blessed with in Abram's tent."
Note, It is a great advantage to live in a religious family, which those ought
to consider who have that advantage, yet upon every slight inducement are forward
to quit it. (2.) "Whither wilt thou go? Thou art running thyself
into sin, in Egypt" (if she return to that people, she will return to
their gods), "and into danger, in the wilderness," through which she
must travel, Deut. viii. 15. Note, Those who are forsaking God and their duty
would do well to remember not only whence they have fallen, but whither
they are falling. See Jer. ii. 18, What hast thou to do (with
Hagar) in the way of Egypt? John vi. 68.
3. Her answer was
honest, and a fair confession: I flee from the face of my mistress. In
this, (1.) She acknowledges her fault in fleeing from her mistress, and yet,
(2.) Excuses it, that it was from the face, of displeasure, of her
mistress. Note, Children and servants must be treated with mildness and
gentleness, lest we provoke them to take any irregular courses and so become
accessory to their sins, which will condemn us, though it will not justify
them.
4. How he sent
her back, with suitable and compassionate counsel: "Return to thy
mistress, and submit thyself under her hand, v. 9. Go home, and
humble thyself for what thou hast done amiss, and beg pardon, and resolve for
the future to behave thyself better." He makes no question but she would
be welcome, though it does not appear that Abram sent after her. Note, Those
that have gone away from their place and duty, when they are convinced of
their error, must hasten their return and reformation, how mortifying soever
it may be.
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The Promise Concerning Ishmael.
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10 And the angel of the LORD
said unto her, I will multiply thy seed exceedingly, that it shall not be
numbered for multitude. 11 And the angel of the LORD
said unto her, Behold, thou art with child, and shalt bear a son, and
shalt call his name Ishmael; because the LORD hath heard thy affliction. 12 And he will be a
wild man; his hand will be against every man, and every man's hand
against him; and he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren.
13 And she called the name of the LORD that spake unto her, Thou God seest me: for she said, Have I
also here looked after him that seeth me? 14 Wherefore the well
was called Beer-lahai-roi; behold, it is between Kadesh and Bered.
We may suppose
that the angel having given Hagar that good counsel (v. 9) to return
to her mistress she immediately promised to do so, and was setting her
face homeward; and then the angel went on to encourage her with an assurance
of the mercy God had in store for her and her seed: for God will meet those
with mercy that are returning to their duty. I said, I will confess, and
thou forgavest, Ps. xxxii. 5. Here is,
I. A prediction
concerning her posterity given her for her comfort in her present distress.
Notice is taken of her condition: Behold, thou art with child; and
therefore this is not a fit place for thee to be in. Note, It is a great
comfort to women with child to think that they are under the particular
cognizance and care of the divine Providence. God graciously considers their
case and suits supports to it. Now, 1. The angel assures her of a safe
delivery, and that of a son, which Abram desired. This fright and
ramble of hers might have destroyed her hope of an offspring; but God dealt
not with her according to her folly: Thou shalt bear a son. She was
saved in child-bearing, not only by providence, but by promise. 2. He names
her child, which was an honour both to her and it: Call him Ishmael, God
will hear; and the reason is, because the Lord has heard; he has, and
therefore he will. Note, The experience we have had of God's seasonable
kindness to us in distress would encourage us to hope for similar help in
similar exigencies, Ps. x. 17. He has heard thy affliction, v.
11. Note, Even where there is little cry of devotion, the God of pity
sometimes graciously hears the cry of affliction. Tears speak as well as
prayers. This speaks comfort to the afflicted, that God not only sees what
their afflictions are, but hears what they say. Note, further, Seasonable
succours, in a day of affliction, ought always to be remembered with
thankfulness to God. Such a time, in such a strait, the Lord heard the
voice of my affliction, and helped me. See Deut. xxvi. 7; Ps. xxxi. 22. 3.
He promises her a numerous offspring, (v. 10): I will multiply thy
seed exceedingly, Heb. multiplying, I will multiply it, that is,
multiply it in every age, so as to perpetuate it. It is supposed that the
Turks at this day descend from Ishmael; and they are a great people. This was
in pursuance of the promise made to Abram: I will make thy seed as the dust
of the earth, ch. xiii. 16. Note, Many that are children of godly
parents have, for their sakes, a very large share of outward common blessings,
though, like Ishmael, they are not taken into covenant: many are multiplied
that are not sanctified. 4. He gives a character of the child she should bear,
which, however it may seem to us, perhaps was not very disagreeable to her (v.
12): He will be a wild man; a wild ass of a man (so the word is), rude,
and bold, and fearing no man--untamed, untractable living at large, and
impatient of service and restraint. Note, The children of the bondwoman, who
are out of covenant with God, are, as they were born, like the wild ass's
colt; it is grace that reclaims men, civilizes them, and makes them wise, and
good for something. It is foretold, (1.) That he should live in strife, and
in a state of war: His hand against every man--this is his sin; and
every man's hand against him--this is his punishment. Note, Those
that have turbulent spirits have commonly troublesome lives; those that are
provoking, vexatious, and injurious to others, must expect to be repaid in
their own coin. He that has his hand and tongue against every man shall have
every man's hand and tongue against him, and he has no reason to complain of
it. And yet, (2.) That he should live in safety, and hold his own against all
the world: He shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren; though
threatened and insulted by all his neighbours, yet he shall keep his ground,
and for Abram's sake, more than his own, shall be able to make his part good
with them. Accordingly we read (ch. xxv. 18), that he died, as
he lived, in the presence of all his brethren. Note, Many that are much
exposed by their own imprudence are yet strangely preserved by the divine
Providence, so much better is God to them than they deserve, when they not
only forfeit their lives by sin, but hazard them.
II. Hagar's pious
reflection upon this gracious appearance of God to her, v. 13, 14.
Observe in what she said,
1. Her awful
adoration of God's omniscience and providence, with application of it to
herself: She called the name of the Lord that spoke unto her, that is,
thus she made confession of his name, this she said to his praise, Thou God
seest me: this should be, with her, his name for ever, and this his
memorial, by which she will know him and remember him while she lives, Thou
God seest me. Note, (1.) The God with whom we have to do is a seeing God,
and all-seeing God. God is (as the ancients express it) all eye.
(2.) We ought to acknowledge this with application to ourselves. He that sees
all sees me, as David (Ps. cxxxix. 1), O Lord, thou hast searched me, and
known me. (3.) A believing regard to God, as a God that sees us, will be
of great use to us in our returns to him. It is a proper word for a
penitent:-- [1.] "Thou seest my sin and folly." I have sinned
before thee, says the prodigal; in thy sight, says David. [2.]
"Thou seest my sorrow and affliction;" this Hagar especially refers
to. When we have brought ourselves into distress by our own folly, yet God has
not forsaken us. [3.] "Thou seest the sincerity and seriousness of my
return and repentance. Thou seest my secret mournings for sin, and secret
motions towards thee." [4.] "Thou seest me, if in any instance I
depart from thee," Ps. xliv. 20, 21. This thought should always restrain
us from sin and excite us to duty: Thou God seest me.
2. Her humble
admiration of God's favour to her: "Have I here also looked after him
that seeth me? Have I here seen the back parts of him that seeth
me?" so it might be read, for the word is much the same with that, Exod.
xxxiii. 23. She saw not face to face, but as through a glass darkly,
1 Cor. xiii. 12. Probably she knew not who it was that talked with her, till
he was departing (as Judg. vi. 21, 22; xiii. 21), and then she looked after
him, with a reflection like that of the two disciples, Luke xxiv. 31, 32. Or, Have
I here seen him that sees me? Note, (1.) The communion which holy souls
have with God consists in their having an eye of faith towards him, as a God
that has an eye of favour towards them. The intercourse is kept up by the eye.
(2.) The privilege of our communion with God is to be looked upon with wonder
and admiration, [1.] Considering what we are who are admitted to this favour.
"Have I? I that am so mean, I that am so vile?" 2 Sam. vii. 18. [2.]
Considering the place where we are thus favoured--"here also? Not
only in Abram's tent and at his altar, but here also, in this
wilderness? Here, where I never expected it, where I was out of the way of my
duty? Lord, how is it?" John xiv. 22. Some make the answer to this
question to be negative, and so look upon it as a penitent reflection: "Have
I here also, in my distress and affliction, looked after God? No, I
was as careless and unmindful of him as ever I used to be; and yet he has thus
visited and regarded me:" for God often anticipates us with his favours,
and is found of those that seek him not, Isa. lxv. 1.
III. The name
which this gave to the place: Beer-lahai-roi, The well of him that liveth
and seeth me, v. 14. It is probable that Hagar put this name upon
it; and it was retained long after, in perpetuam rei memoriam--a lasting
memorial of this event. This was a place where the God of glory manifested
the special cognizance and care he took of a poor woman in distress. Note, 1.
He that is all-seeing is ever-living; he lives and sees us. 2. Those that are
graciously admitted into communion with God, and receive seasonable comforts
from him, should tell others what he has done for their souls, that they also
may be encouraged to seek him and trust in him. 3. God's gracious
manifestations of himself to us are to be had in everlasting remembrance by
us, and should never be forgotten.
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The Birth of Ishmael.
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15 And Hagar bare Abram a son: and Abram
called his son's name, which Hagar bare, Ishmael. 16 And Abram was
fourscore and six years old, when Hagar bare Ishmael to Abram.
It is here taken
for granted, though not expressly recorded, that Hagar did as the angel
commanded her, returning to her mistress and submitting herself; and then, in
the fulness of time, she brought forth her son. Note, Those who obey divine
precepts shall have the comfort of divine promises. This was the son of the
bond-woman that was born after the flesh (Gal. iv. 23), representing
the unbelieving Jews, v. 25. Note, 1. Many who can call Abraham father
are yet born after the flesh, Matt. iii. 9. 2. The carnal seed in the
church are sooner brought forth than the spiritual. It is an easier thing to
persuade men to assume the form of godliness than to submit to the power of
godliness.
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